Why Loyalty Feels So Expensive Today
Introduction: The High Price of Loyalty
Why is loyalty becoming so rare?
Because it’s no longer easily available. When something becomes rare—something you can’t find just anywhere—it naturally becomes more expensive. And loyalty, in today’s world of endless options and distractions, has become one of the most precious and scarce qualities in any relationship.
Once Upon a Time: When Loyalty Was the Norm
If we look back at our parents’ generation—or even the generations before them—most couples were loyal to each other not only because of love, but also because they simply didn’t have many options.
They weren’t constantly exposed to alternative realities, to filtered versions of people’s lives, or to constant access to strangers through their phones. Their loyalty was more a result of commitment and circumstance—there were fewer temptations, fewer windows to escape from reality, and far fewer exits in a relationship.
Today’s World: Endless Options, Fewer Commitments
Fast forward to today—we live in a virtual world.
Social media has blurred the boundaries between real and fake connections. With just a few clicks, you can:
- Extract emotional attention
- Fulfill sexual desires without attachment
- Build fake friendships for temporary comfort
- Escape your reality at any moment
This abundance of options means people no longer need to stay loyal. It’s a choice now, not a necessity.
True Loyalty: Being Present Even in Loneliness
If someone chooses you despite all these distractions, despite the ability to get their needs fulfilled elsewhere—that’s not just loyalty, that’s devotion.
Real loyalty shows in solitude.
When someone is alone, it’s easy to betray, easy to explore, easy to “enjoy life” for a moment and return like nothing happened. But if even in their loneliness, you’re the only one they think of…
If their solitude is pure and their emotional space is still reserved for you…
You’re blessed.
If You Have Someone Like That – Don’t Let Go
If there’s someone in your life whose heart still beats for you, who doesn’t get distracted despite everything available to them, who is emotionally and mentally committed to you—
Then it’s not just love, it’s rare.
And if you fail to value such a person, you’re turning your back on a treasure most people will never find.
A Message from Ali Haider
Hello everyone,
My name is Ali Haider.
And if you feel that your relationship is struggling, if you’re confused, lost, or hurting—don’t be afraid to ask for help.
Seeking guidance, advice, or therapy doesn’t make you weak.
It means you care. It means you’re strong enough to want better.
And sometimes, that’s the bravest thing you can do.
If this message touched your heart, consider sharing it with someone who needs to hear it. Loyalty may be rare—but it still exists. You just have to recognize it before it’s gone.
