Why is Loyalty Getting Expensive?
Loyalty, once considered a given in relationships, has now become a rare and expensive commodity. But why? Let’s dive into the reasons behind this shift and why genuine loyalty holds more value than ever.
Loyalty is Rare, So It’s Expensive
Anything that becomes scarce automatically becomes precious. Loyalty is no different. When something is easily found, its worth goes down. But when it becomes rare, it becomes a luxury. Today, loyalty is not as easily available as it was decades ago, and that’s exactly why it feels so expensive.
Why Was Loyalty Easier Before?
If we look back at our parents’ generation or even earlier times, loyalty seemed natural and common. Why? Because people had limited choices.
- No social media.
- No virtual connections.
- No instant communication with strangers across the globe.
Back then, relationships were often bound by proximity and community. People were loyal because they didn’t have alternatives or constant distractions.
The Era of Endless Options
Fast forward to today, and the scenario has completely changed. The virtual world has opened doors to thousands of connections at your fingertips. Social media, dating apps, and online friendships have made temptations more accessible than ever.
One click can lead to:
- Emotional connections
- Casual flings
- Validation and attention from strangers
In such a world, staying loyal is a conscious choice, not a default setting.
The Reality of Modern Relationships
Here’s the hard truth:
It’s easier than ever to be disloyal without getting caught. Why? Because loneliness can trigger impulsive choices. When someone is alone, it’s tempting to escape reality for a moment—without anyone knowing. That’s why loyalty in today’s age is not about external appearances; it’s about what a person does in their solitude.
True Loyalty is in Their Solitude
If someone chooses to keep you in their heart even when no one is watching, that is real loyalty.
Think about it:
- In a time when distractions are everywhere
- When opportunities to betray are just a click away
- When no one would know if they strayed
…and yet, they choose you. That’s priceless.
Value What You Can’t Buy
If you are lucky enough to have someone who stands by you in this era—who is faithful even in their solitude—you have something rare. Losing them because of ignorance or carelessness is nothing short of foolishness. Or as I would bluntly put it, dhatkaar hai aap pe agar aap unki kadar nahi karte.
Final Thoughts
Loyalty today is expensive because it’s a choice in a world full of options. If someone chooses you every single day, cherish them. Appreciate them. Because in times like these, their loyalty is worth more than gold.
