Signs of a Person Who Doesn’t Cheat
You asked me, “What kind of people don’t cheat?” A trustworthy person is someone who is transparent. Transparency comes naturally to them.
1. Transparency in Actions
A person who doesn’t cheat will be open with their partner. They will let you know where they are going, what they are doing, and won’t treat their phone like a secret diary. Their phone isn’t a mystery box. They keep you informed about their routine, making everything clear and accessible.
2. Transparency Early in the Relationship
One of the best things about a trustworthy partner is that you don’t have to keep checking on them constantly. Once you establish transparency early in the relationship, it lays a foundation of trust. This helps in the longevity of the relationship and allows it to thrive without needing constant oversight.
3. Trust Factor Established Once
You don’t need to keep a “report card” of their behavior all the time. Once transparency and trust are established, it becomes easier to maintain a healthy and long-lasting relationship.
4. Cheaters Hide Behind Mystery
A cheater, on the other hand, is like a walking mystery box. They are full of puzzles and riddles, hiding things and keeping secrets, which makes them unreliable and untrustworthy.
Early Signs of a Cheating Partner
A cheating partner often makes small mistakes that can give them away. These little red flags and early signs include how secretive they become with their phone, treating it like a classified file. If they need to talk to someone, they’ll step outside or sit in a corner to text.
He’ll Become Arrogant with You
Then, his behavior will change. He’ll start becoming arrogant and moody with you, getting angry over small things.
Pay attention to his dressing habits
he’ll start wearing new clothes every day, shower more often, and use perfume.
He Will Stop Spending on You
His spending habits will also change. If he used to spend 1000 on you, he’ll reduce it to 200. Gradually, he’ll try to distance himself from you, avoiding eye contact and pushing you away. These are the signs you should be cautious of.
4 Signs That Your Partner Is About to Break Up with You
Many people often ask me, “How can we know if our partner is planning to leave us?” I usually share with them these 4 signs:
1. Undue Criticism
The first sign is that you start facing undue criticism. Your partner will criticize you at every opportunity, even when you’ve done nothing wrong. They will make a mountain out of a molehill, keeping you in a vulnerable position, constantly making you feel afraid and criticized.
2. Feeling Disrespected
The second sign is that you will start feeling disrespected. Your partner will show contempt towards you. They will make you feel degraded, scold you over trivial matters, and disrespect you in front of family and others.
3. Defensiveness and Gaslighting
The third, and equally important, sign is defensiveness. In order to defend their own reactions, they will gaslight you. This means they will manipulate the situation to make you doubt your reality and feel like you are at fault.
4. Emotional Stonewalling
The most crucial sign is emotional stonewalling. Your partner will build a wall around themselves and become emotionally unavailable, turning into an “emotional zombie.” No matter how much you try to share your feelings or talk, they will shut you down and distance themselves emotionally.
Written by: Syed Ali Haider •Syed Ali Haider (@syed.ali.haider5)
