My Woman(Wife) Has Become Like a Man, I Can’t Stay with Her!

Many men come to me saying this, but when I look into their history, it turns out that it’s their own fault. They forced their wives to develop masculine traits.

What Does a Woman Want from a Man?

A woman needs protection, provision, and leadership from her husband. But if the man takes a back seat, leaving her to fight on all fronts, she will be forced to develop masculine traits out of necessity.

When a Woman Takes on the Man’s Role

If she’s the one earning, fighting against her in-laws, standing up for her children’s rights, and defending her own dignity, masculine traits will naturally start to emerge because she has no other choice.

The Consequences of a Man’s Lack of Masculinity

Then, the same man will complain that his wife has become too masculine and that he’s no longer attracted to her. But this is a result of his own failure to behave in a masculine way.

Being a Woman in Society is a Tough Task

Being a woman in this society, or in any society for that matter, has always been challenging. Let me give you an example. I was listening to an Indian professor, and he said: a man’s contribution to creating a child lasts just a few minutes, but a woman carries that child in her womb for nine months. During that time, the baby absorbs nutrients, even drawing calcium from her bones to develop its own, as medical science explains.

The Physical and Emotional Challenges Woman Face

After giving birth, the woman feeds the child, and her body goes through numerous transformations. She often faces postpartum depression as well. On top of that, she endures a monthly cycle of 5-7 days. I saw a video where men were subjected to induced period pain, and they couldn’t bear it for even a minute. But a woman lives through that pain for 5-7 days every month.

A Call for Empathy from Men

I say to men: if you can’t do much, at least show a little empathy during these times. Be kind to her. It won’t cost you anything. Just imagine, if you were in pain and had to endure what she goes through, how would you feel? What if you were in her place instead?

Woman are fragile

Biggest Misconception About Woman

What is the biggest misconception in our society? That women are weak, and they are not weak. Women need to understand this as well.

Stop Portraying Yourself as Weak

Stop portraying yourself as weak. Let me explain how women are strong.

Proof of Strength in Childbirth

You give birth to a child, right? What more proof of strength and power can there be than that?

Handling menstrual Cycle

You have menstrual cycle in life, and you handle them. What could be a greater sign of strength?

Mentally Strong and Managing In-Laws

You are also managing your in-laws, and mentally, you are very strong.

Woman Seek Validation and Care

You want to validate them (women). Just like when something fragile is written on an object, you handle it with care, don’t you? You handle it gently.

Handle Woman with Compassion and Attention

Exactly, you must handle women with care, compassion, love, and, most importantly, with attention.

An angry wife is a committed wife

Men should listen carefully:

This is especially for men. If your wife is committed to you, if your wife is loyal to you, then she will definitely get angry. The way you react is very wrong. If she cares that you’re not taking responsibility, if she’s concerned that you’re not managing finances properly, spending money carelessly, and if she gets angry or yells at you about your health, dude, you are blessed—she loves you.

What men usually think about woman:

In our society, men often think that she is being fussy or bossy. Yes, there are some women who are bossy, and that’s a different scenario. For this particular reason, in counseling, men often tell me that she yells and complains, so I ask them what they do, and they say they don’t help with household chores. I tell them, she is concerned—she doesn’t want your children to disrespect you tomorrow just because you are an irresponsible father.

And you know what? Fear the day when she becomes silent and stops yelling; this means she doesn’t care about you anymore.