How to Keep Your Man Interested in You
It’s very simple – you just have to engage in the things he enjoys. Here’s how:
1. Engage in His Interests
If your man has a hobby or passion, get involved in it. For instance, I love playing PlayStation, and my wife plays it with me. It creates a shared bond and makes him feel understood.
2. Show Appreciation
Whatever he brings to the table, appreciate it. If he’s contributing or working hard, show gratitude. Even if you need to exaggerate, say “wow” and express how much you value his efforts. It’s important to make him feel recognized and valued for his contributions.
3. Make Him Feel Needed
Even if you’re independent and capable of earning on your own, it’s important to let him feel like he’s needed. This will boost his sense of responsibility toward you and motivate him to take care of you.
4. Give Him Space
If he needs some “boys’ time” on the weekends or wants to hang out with his friends, let him. Give him the freedom to enjoy himself, and in turn, he will start missing you when he’s away.
What Should Men Do?
Men can follow the same approach. Appreciate her, engage in her interests, and give her space when she needs it.
He is using you for S** Only!
The First Sign: Emotional Unavailability
The first sign is that he is emotionally unavailable. When you’re going through any emotional trauma, you need compassion and love, but he won’t provide that.
Unusual Patterns of Communication
You might notice some unusual behaviors: he will mostly call you after dark or on weekends. He won’t introduce you to his friends and you won’t appear on his social media. He may be keeping you ghosted.
Lack of Shared Experiences
You won’t go on dinner dates or be seen together in public places.
Disconnection After Intimacy
After your intimate moments, he will likely leave very quickly. During these meetings, he won’t share anything personal with you.
Recognizing Red Flags
There are hundreds of red flags, but these are the main ones to watch out for.