Does Every Man Deserve a Good Woman?
Every man desires a loyal, loving, and understanding partner. But here’s the real question:
Are you becoming the kind of man that a good woman truly deserves?
A good woman is not a prize you win—she’s a standard you rise to meet.
The Myth of Entitlement: “I Am a Man”
In our society, too many men are raised to believe that simply being a man grants them certain entitlements—respect, loyalty, submission.
But let’s be clear:
Being a man isn’t a title. It’s a responsibility.
If you expect unwavering loyalty from a woman, your own eyes must also stay loyal.
You cannot be seeking constant attention, validation, or flirting with distractions and still expect her to be fully present for you.
Mixed Signals Ruin Trust
When your actions signal, “I’m available,” while expecting her to stay committed—you are breaking the emotional contract.
Your woman, your partner, your wife—if you want her to be patient, loving, and respectful with you, your family, and her in-laws,
then that patience must be earned.
And how is it earned?
Patience is Born from Hope
Patience comes from hope.
A woman stays patient when she sees tangible progress in her partner.
But if you’re stuck in the same patterns, refusing to grow or reflect, what exactly is she holding on to?
Don’t expect her to keep waiting if you give her no reason to believe things will change.
Hope is fuel—and you must give her that fuel.
A Woman Reflects What She Receives
A woman is like a mirror—she reflects back what you pour into her.
If you:
- Give her security, she will give you trust.
- Give her kindness, she will return love.
- Give her loyalty, she will give you devotion.
- Give her neglect, she will reflect distance.
- Give her disrespect, and she will lose her voice around you.
This is not just emotion—this is psychology. Women respond to energy. They reciprocate what they receive.
Why Do You Expect the Best While Giving the Worst?
If you’re offering:
- Emotional distance
- Rude behavior
- Silent treatment
- Misogyny
- A mindset of “I’m the man, I have the rights—you’re the woman, your rights are limited”
…then how can you expect to receive the best version of her?
She isn’t bad. She’s just reacting to the imbalance you’ve created.
What You Put In, Is What You Get Out
Think of your relationship like an emotional bank.
You withdraw love, support, and peace from it—only if you’ve been depositing them too.
If all you’ve put in are insults, control, and arrogance—what do you expect to get back?
A good woman doesn’t demand perfection. But she does expect effort.
And effort is the most honest form of love.
A Message from Ali
If you’re facing these kinds of relationship struggles in your own life, it’s okay.
You’re not alone.
But healing starts when you stop asking, “Why is she like this?” and start asking,
“What energy am I giving her?”
The truth is:
Every relationship is a reflection of two energies meeting.
Change your energy, and you’ll change your relationship.
— Ali haider
