True Masculinity

Sharing Emotions

If you sit with your wife and shed a few tears together, this too is masculinity.

Helping in the Kitchen

If you help your wife in the kitchen, that is also masculinity.

Caring for Your Child

If you change the baby’s diaper and wake up at night to check on your child, that is also masculinity.

What Masculinity Isn’t

Keeping your wife scared, making her feel insecure, cheating on her, and not respecting her—these are not masculinity.

Love and Care

True masculinity is to love your wife, take care of her, and express your love for her.

Proudly Holding Her Hand

The greatest man is the one who holds his wife’s hand in front of the whole world and says, “This is my wife, and I love her dearly.”

Dear husbands stop being mama’s boy

Growing Up

It’s time to leave your mother’s lap and become responsible, especially if you’re going to raise a family.

For the Parents

My request to parents is to cut the umbilical cord so that their child can take on responsibility. Marriage means your child should be able to make decisions about their married life independently and not ask you for approval each time.

For Mothers-in-Law

A special request to mothers-in-law: let your son become the kind of husband you once wanted for yourself. Don’t try to control him or make him seek your approval for every decision.

Real-Life Example

In a counseling session, I heard a woman say that she had to get permission from her father-in-law even to buy a pen! Do you think such a man would be capable of raising a healthy family or nurturing his own children well?

Message for All Men

To all men out there: please, grow up. Don’t be a mama’s boy—take responsibility for your own life and family.