The Worst Form of Emotional Abuse is Silent partner

The Silent Treatment by a Husband or Partner

The silent treatment from a spouse is one of the worst forms of emotional torture. They stop communicating, not just about minor issues, but also about critical matters like marriage problems, children’s issues, and other significant concerns that may be tearing the marriage apart. Even when it’s clear that the marriage is on the verge of breaking, they choose to ignore it, brushing everything under the carpet.

Lack of Communication on Important Issues

Key issues that need attention and resolution are dismissed. They stop giving importance to their partner or the marriage itself. This emotional neglect leads to deeper fractures in the relationship. It’s often advised to seek help or consultation in such situations because ignoring these issues can severely harm the marriage.

Prolonged Communication Gaps

In many cases, couples go for years without meaningful communication. A recent case involved a couple where the husband had not spoken to his wife for eight years. Rebuilding that communication bridge becomes crucial, and if you feel like you can’t communicate with your partner, seek help. Don’t let the silence continue.

Women Suffer in Silence

Often, women endure this emotional abuse in silence, allowing the situation to continue as it is. They become mentally and emotionally drained, eventually suffering from severe mental health issues due to this prolonged emotional neglect.

Seek Help Before It’s Too Late

It’s important to recognize the harm in silent treatment and not just “bear with it.” Seeking professional help can be a lifeline in such situations, and it’s crucial for women not to let this toxic dynamic continue unchecked.

This is why couples dont communicate

Remove your armor, put your shield aside. They have come to talk, not to fight. Step out of your defensive mode. I advise couples and individuals that communication is the key to any successful relationship, and it’s also the reason many relationships end.

Why does communication break down?

When we hold up our version like a shield in front of our partner, challenging them to cross it. They can’t, because you’ve gone into defensive mode. Your partner has come to talk, not to fight. There may be sadness or anger in what they’re sharing. Validate their feelings—if they’re angry, hug them, hold their hand, show them that you’re here to listen. Then, reasonably discuss the issue with them. The moment you shut down your partner, that’s when communication ends. And when communication ends, so does your relationship.

Breaking the Silence: How Silent Husbands Impact Marriages and How to Heal.

During counselling, the most effort I have to put in is with silent husbands, who require the most work. There are also two types of silent husbands. The most common complaint I receive from women is that their husbands are silent. The number of silent men is even greater than unfaithful men.

The Impact on Marriage

This is a poison that can destroy a marriage. The women watching this can understand that a silent man can do more harm to your relationship than an unfaithful one.

Why they are like this ? Why husband/boyfriend is silent ?

The issue might stem from their childhood; when I try to understand them, I find out that their parents didn’t listen to them, or teachers used to bully them, which made them withdraw and stay silent. But some husbands do this intentionally as well; when they don’t want to listen to their wives, they become silent. If they don’t want to respond, they become silent. If they need to talk to their wives about something, if there is a conflict or an argument that needs to be resolved, they still become silent.

Finding the Way Back

I advise men to talk about any issue and resolve it. If your partner is not responsive, does not give you a proper response, or does not receive your opinions well, then talk to me. I will help you out of this. Click here to book appointment. Or Subscribe to our newsletter I post content for you regularly.
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