Why Women Cheat?
I’ve heard this from many relationship therapists: A woman will only cheat on you if she is deprived of validations from her husband. There is no other reason. If a woman is receiving validation from her husband, she won’t even notice another man. But if you keep her deprived of that validation…
Lack of Validation
For example, if she bought a new dress, and she looked beautiful, but you didn’t compliment her. If you don’t make her feel loved in the small things, there are many men out there willing to give her that attention. She’ll take even the slightest bit of validation, even if she doesn’t like the guy because she craves the feeling that she’s not getting from you.
Emotional Connection Matters
Even if the guy has red flags, she’ll ignore them. It won’t matter to her because she’s getting that feeling from someone else that she couldn’t get from you.
The Solution is Simple
You just need to make her feel loved. It doesn’t cost you anything. Validate her emotions and make her feel cherished. Women remain loyal for this reason alone. Women cheat only because of this lack of validation – there is no other reason.
When a woman breaks up, it’s over.
When a woman says it’s over, then it’s over. If your wife or partner tells you after one, two, or ten years of being together that she doesn’t want to live with you anymore, then step back. Because a woman doesn’t break up easily.
Why does a woman break up?
If your wife is breaking up, it means she has become mentally and emotionally strong enough to live without you. She has learned to endure that pain. But when a woman says she wants to break up, take it seriously because she is fed up with you.
What if a man wants to break up?
I advise girls that if a man casually says he will leave you, don’t take it seriously. Men often say such things, but most of them don’t actually leave.
Behind every broken/shattered Women there is a MAN
I have seen broken women, whose hearts have shattered, adopt the strength of a mountain.
I read a beautiful quote: “If you force a woman to face everything she is scared of, you have created a woman who fears nothing.” They say that behind every successful man, there is a woman, and behind every shattered, broken girl, there is also a man — unfortunately, he is not there to make her strong. Recently, I was giving a therapy session to a brave woman; I salute her, and at the end of the session, I applauded her. Men think they are strong, but it is not men who are strong — it is women who are strong.
The Most Underestimated Pain of Women
I don’t understand what the problem is with us South Asians. Consider this: she is leaving her home to come into yours. For you, everything—the room, the house, the environment—is the same, but for her, it’s all new.
An Example to Illustrate
Take the example of when you buy a new TV. Everyone gathers to read the manual, figuring out how the sound system works and how to use the remote. You make sure to use it properly.
The Expectation of Understanding
When you bring a new person into your home, you should also come together to understand her. Why do you expect her to understand you without any effort? When you bring a daughter-in-law into the family, make an effort to understand her so that she can understand you too.
